10 Adorable "Missions" of the Bride's Mother

 

Some mothers will intervene heavily in their daughter's wedding, while many will step back, leaving the young couple to do whatever they want. No matter which "team" your mother belongs to, there will be the most basic and traditional "tasks" that every mother needs to know when her daughter gets married. Let's see what those "happy" missions are.

1. Help your daughter buy a wedding dress

Mother and daughter choosing a wedding dress is one of the most traditional things. Today, many brides-to-be prefer to choose dresses with their fiancé, sister or bridesmaid. Or because of geographical conditions, if you don't live with your parents, you have to choose your own wedding dress, without your mother accompanying you.

In any case, don't forget to discuss and share with your mother about the style of shirt you like, or send her a picture to see to choose with you.

2. “The Bridesmaids Behind the Wings”

Of course, you already have one or more of your bridesmaids, invited by your sisters or close friends. However, there will be an "honorable bridesmaid", always quietly standing behind you, that is your mother.

Everything the bridesmaids take care of, the mother will take care of and support and remind when needed.

3. Prepare for rites and rituals

There will be many customs and rituals in the wedding ceremony that you don't know all about because you are just getting on the flower car for the first time. But mom will guide and remind you how to prepare to have the most complete and complete wedding.

4. With you on the guest list

If your budget or conditions do not allow, it is imperative to cut the number of guests, mom will be the one to help you do it. She clearly understands who to send invitations to, and who to send greeting cards to.

5. A good assistant in preparation

Some brides and grooms confided that they had a headache because their parents interfered too deeply in the wedding preparations, making the young couple no longer free to do what they like. Of course, two different generations will have different conceptions of weddings. Parents always prefer the traditional style, while the young couple prefers the individual style, in the forest and under the sea. But the psychological and subtle mother will not interfere too deeply and be too proactive, but only appear at the right time, despite the fact that she always follows you closely in every little thing.

6. Help you cut unnecessary costs

Every bride is flying in the clouds during the preparations, but the mother of the bride is on the ground!

Mom will give you useful tips to cut down on impulsive, frivolous expenses that in a second, you intend to "slap your hand over your forehead" because you think that life is only married once. At that time, your mother will remind you to save so that you can still nurture your future home and welcome babies (with another billion!).

7. Your “second eyes”

When the wedding takes place, surely you no longer know anything around. But mother will always be your second eyes, observing and helping you adjust and remind those responsible for the wedding ceremony, to ensure that no mistakes happen.

8. Welcoming guests

Surely you will not have much time to welcome all the guests to the wedding party. So mom will always be there to support you.

9. Cover the bride with chiffon

Let the mother cover her daughter, and the father take the daughter's hand and give it to the groom, whether you have a wedding ceremony at church, outdoors or anywhere. That sacred moment will stay in your mind forever.

10. Last-minute trouble-solvers

The man is about to arrive at the gate and you haven't finished buttoning your wedding dress yet? It's almost time for you to go to the airport for your honeymoon but your luggage is not ready yet? Mom is always there to help you!

 

Remember that every motherof the bride wants to be a part of her daughter's wedding, whether you ask her to or not. Certainly, during the preparation process, there will be many conflicts within the bride's family, or between the groom's family and the girl's family, but all will pass. The only thing that remains is the unconditional love your mother has for you. And don't forget that, she may not know everything to help you on your wedding day, but she always knows what her daughter needs most.

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